Many women describe the same confusing experience during sex. Their body is there, but they are not. They feel distant. Foggy. Numb. Like they are watching from the outside or waiting for it to be over. Sometimes it happens suddenly. Sometimes it creeps in quietly....
Many women come into therapy carrying a quiet, persistent question. “Why didn’t I say no?” That question sounds reasonable. It sounds responsible. And it keeps people stuck. It assumes that consent is primarily about verbal refusal. It assumes that if you did not...
Many women replay a moment in their mind and get stuck on one detail. “I eventually said yes.” They assume that because they did not physically resist, because they stopped objecting, or because they agreed to something to make it end, consent must have been present....
Many people carry a quiet belief that sounds responsible on the surface. “I should have known better.” “I should have stopped it.” “I shouldn’t have let it happen.” This belief often shows up after experiences that were confusing, pressuring, or unwanted. Especially...
You may have asked yourself this question more times than you can count: Why did I just do nothing? You might replay the moment over and over, wondering why you did not fight back, speak up, leave, or stop what was happening. Maybe the question has slowly turned into...
You may have had this thought at some point: Nothing violent happened. So why does this still bother me? Maybe you have replayed it over and over, trying to make sense of why something that “wasn’t that bad” still shows up as anxiety, self doubt, trouble trusting, or...
